I always use to think that I had a little ADD. Then again I think diagnosis like that are given out far too easily. Like Autism; I understand it’s real, but perhaps some children just need a little extra attention when it comes to their development. Or ADHD; I think there are plenty of kids AND adults out there who could use a good spanking (or beating in an adult’s case) instead of “talking about” why they are acting like such an asshole and shoving pills down their throat.
I get bored easily. I don’t know if it’s because I like to stay busy or need to constantly have something to do. Then again I have little problem chillin’ at my house on a Friday night with a movie, dinner and some wine.
I couldn’t sleep last night and I had these among mother thoughts running through my mind.
It got me to thinking about these same scenarios of ADD and boredom when it comes to men. Not that Firman and I have the most exciting life at the moment, but he’s younger, more virile, has more energy and is a helluva lot more fun, even at home on a Friday night, than most guys I’ve dated. I use to only date older guys. Then I realized more and more that they’re so whiney, stagnant and set-in-their-ways. For me, it got as old as they were real quick. Even the guys close to my age, just bored the shit outta me after a while. Or I just dated a few others along with them at the same time and just bounced around to the next when they turned into a snooze-fest. It became a circle of men and when 1 dropped off I picked up another. I thought it was a problem for me for a while, but I’ve come to realize that I just dated like most men do.
Like the Lawyer. He was a self-proclaimed “weirdo”, but in actuality he was a just socially inept, self-absorbed, prick. All I really wanted was someone to go out with once a week and fuck and he couldn’t deal with that because not only was he not as “sexual” as me (get some Viagra, you’re only 37), but his idea of “very near future” when it came to meeting up was like a month away. What kind of moron, especially an overweight one, turns down a once a week date as hot as me?! It took little time before his bullshit dried me up and I told him to have a nice life. I couldn’t even be friends with someone like that. Precisely why I’m not friends with Sad Man anymore.
The Marine was another one who made me doze off. He played games and lied in attempt to be more interesting to himself, was not really that fun to hang out with, only gave me an orgasm about half the time and was another self-absorbed douchebag.
Then you get the guys who are really ready to settle down because they’ve been out there so long. The too nice guys. They try too hard and are so cautious they’re mind numbing.
For the most part they all got to be predictable. Only the older ones though. At least the younger guys will surprise you sometimes. So I don’t think it was ever me or my problem, it was them. They aged way too fast. Nobody wants to fuck Grandpa.
I think that even though I’m 35 I still feel
and kinda look like I’m still in my 20′s. I have energy and I love to do and try new things. It’s fun to meet new people. Sure, I might not give a shit about them once I get to know them, but it’s nice to do different stuff and break away from the norm sometimes.
I came to the conclusion that younger guys are better. At least for me. Yes, some are too hyper and annoying, but if you find one in just the right place they’ll be just the right fit.